Thinking of Finnish habits, behaviour and culture raises different feelings in me. Sometimes I find Finns amusing but sometimes I feel very proud of calling myself a Finn. But having a different cultural background than most of Finns gives me a slightly different perspective on “Finnishness”. My parents are Russian but I was born in Finland so I can say I have absorbed from both cultures, not feeling like I am more part of one or another.
One distinctive feature that comes to my mind instantly that describes Finns is, can’t find a better word, awkwardness. Most Finns just seem to be unable to be relaxed and easy in many social situations. I guess high self-awareness, shyness, and humbleness together make it hard for Finns to be themselves with new people. In Finnish culture silence in company is okay which might feel strange to some foreigners. Touching and being too close is also often too overwhelming for Finns so personal space is important for us.
In Finland everything seems to be amazingly organised, clean and well-planned, especially when I compare it to Russia which I have visited a lot. All institutions work with no complicated bureaucracy, there is a minimal amount of corruption and the health and social care are the best in the world. Cities, countryside and nature are all kept tidy.
There is a peculiar place that unites both Russians and Finns and breaks some cultural norms that are valid in everyday Finnish life. That place is sauna. A hot, steamy room that is so close to the heart of almost every Finn that you can find them everywhere. For example, in sauna it is okay to be naked and sit really close to each other. In saunas people often feel more relaxed and even start talking to each other, moreover, the talks are often humorous or can get very intimate. But there as well, we feel quite comfortable not to say anything if there is nothing to say.
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