The Importance of Personal Space
Personal space in Finland is more than just a physical concept; it is a deeply rooted cultural value. Whether it’s at a bus stop or a park, we Finns maintain a noticeable distance from others, especially strangers. It’s a sign of respect. If you sit on a park bench, no one will sit next to you if there is room elsewhere.
Another example is the common scene at bus stops, where Finns often stand several meters apart from each other while waiting. The idea is that by giving each other space, we are showing consideration and allowing others to feel comfortable.
However, this norm has its exceptions. On a crowded bus or tram, where space is limited, we adapt to the situation. The context changes, and so does the expectation of personal space, showing a practical side of Finnishness where social etiquette meets everyday reality.
The Power of Quietness
Finnish culture also places a high value on quietness, both in public spaces and in nature. In public transportation, this is particularly evident. You’ll find that most people remain silent, perhaps listening to music, gazing out the window, or simply lost in thought. Whereas in some other countries people talk loudly on the phone, sometimes even with the speaker on or listen to music without headphones.
Finns often engage with nature in silence, allowing the sounds of the environment—such as the rustling of leaves, the singing of birds, or the gentle lapping of water—to take center stage.
The silence shows how much Finns value peace, self-reflection, and respect for others. It highlights our comfort with quietness, helping them stay calm whether we’re alone or with others. In a noisy and busy world, the Finnish love for quietness provides a calming balance.
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