Instead, I would like to talk about our current government, nationalism, racism, increasing numbers of violence by underaged people, lower learning outcomes, poverty, income differences, adolescent depression, and alcoholism as a national disease.
I have a Latin American friend living in Helsinki, married to a Finnish woman. I have had interesting conversations with him about what it’s like to be a foreigner in our society. These conversations have been eye-opening. He was traveling regularly from Helsinki to Tallinn, every week several times. Yet, every single time, month after month, he was stopped for an interview at customs – only because he looked different. He told me what it’s like to be a presumed suspect in all kinds of situations – no matter how peace-loving and nice a person he is and wouldn’t harm a fly.
We Finns think our society is the best place to be; we say it’s like winning a lottery to be born in Finland, which might be true – for us. But my Latin American friend said he wouldn’t raise his dark-haired children here in Finland, in our closed and xenophobic society.
Year after year, for the sixth time in a row, Finland is the happiest country in the world, according to The World Happiness Report 2023. According to Ilona Suojanen, a researcher and “happyologist” at the Ministry of the Interior, part of the happiness here in Finland derives from a strong trust in authority and in fellow human beings.
That may well be true – but I’m looking forward to a time when this happiness and this trust can be equally felt by everyone in this country, regardless of the colour of their skin or their beliefs.
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